This was the last thing you counted upon: falling in love. You took that internship, signed up for the post graduate degree at a foreign university or moved abroad for a career choice. And now you are faced with the fact that you are deeply in love and have met the one person you just know you want to share the rest of your life with.

A million questions start racing through your head and they are not only the usual ones. “How will this work?”is one of the first ones my couples always told me went through their minds. You are thinking about different cultures, different backgrounds, different languages, different traditions. Will he/ she want to come live with you should live move you to another country or prefer to stay – or move back – to where her or his heritage is, roots are.

If any of these thoughts cross you mind, just ask yourself this one question: “Are these MY thoughts or am i anticipating what my FAMILY will think?”And 9 out of 10 it will be the latter.

Trust your hart. Trust your instinct and trust your LOVE.